What Is A Queen?

As simple as it should be, know that a Queen is both you and me! We reign on our thrown with power, precision, and promise.

Strong. Head High. Self-Confident

"A queen is someone who upholds themselves to live in a way of self-confidence, self-worth, pride, unconditional love, and all things positive. A queen stays optimistic through adversity, knows who they are, and what they're about." — Jennifer Sumter

In life, you sometimes lose yourself in the process and it may be a number of factors to contribute to that such as your love life, personal life, family life, or any negative situation impacting you. I will never forget the day I lost who I was and what I was about. In wanting to be with someone who I knew wasn't for me, but I still went on with it. Seeing all the signs and signals right in front of my face but ignoring them was the worst idea ever. I went through hell because I was drowning in my personal life, dealing with issues I had no idea how to handle and deal with. It was a lot going on in my life, so I started taking whatever came and that's when I completely lost myself. I noticed it right away, so I started praying each day for a change. I had to come out of that head space because it was pulling me in a direction of someone who I knew I wasn't. But it was one momentous day I thank God for all the time; I finally overcame the stronghold on my life. I was sitting in the car with people who were my friends at the time and something hit me hard. I opened the door and I'm looking around like what the hell am I doing? Why did I allow this to happen without trying to figure things out and fix it? As I started smiling, I knew I got Jenn back! I knew that was the moment I needed; it was an awakening! A beautiful, peaceful, refreshing and weightlifting experience that changed my life for the absolute better. I regained my power in that very moment! After that, I never allowed anything to get in the way of losing who I was. I tightened up my standards, my boundaries, set out my expectations, and made much needed rules and guidelines for my life. The biggest thing I've learned out of that situation was that you must take care of yourself and your wellbeing FIRST! You must know who you are in order to detect when you're not aligned within.

You cannot be a Queen living a life that's not up to what you should have, which are standards. No female should be without them. Standards are expectations that are set into place to uphold boundaries. Boundaries being what you are in control of; an individual property line that that clears up what you accept and what you don't accept. You set your rules, limits, and guidelines. Queen Standards (The Sincere Six)

1. Always consider and see yourself as a Queen

2. Always hold your head up high

3. You are a priority not an option

4. Do not lower your standards under any circumstances

5. Always stay true to yourself and your feelings

6. Hold your own and stand your ground All females have a special gift called intuition. This pure gift is the key to your life choices and decisions. It's often referred to your "gut feeling" and that feeling occurs when you're deciding about a situation. I found myself in a situation and my intuition told me early on that something wasn't adding up and I made sure I got the clarity I needed. Your intuition is a personal gift that you shouldn't take likely. I feel as if it's the gift from God that leads us, guides us, and prepares us for situations in our lives. When you are struck with that gut feeling, take the time to figure out what it's telling you or warning you about. It's like the alert in your body with sirens going off warning you about something you need to deal with.

So Queen, you have to be 100% honest with yourself in how you're feeling and the decisions you make. The saying goes, "You live, and you learn." which is very true. Continue to live in a way of self-confidence, self-worth, and pride in who you are. Know your standards, boundaries, and expectations and remain true to them. Follow your intuition/gut feeling because it will never steer you wrong!